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<h1 style="text-align: center;">Follow Your Bliss: What Path Do You&nbsp;Want?</h1> <p style="text-align: center;"><img src="https://media.istockphoto.com/id/1373887893/photo/sugarland-run-stream-valley-trail-hike-in-herndon-fairfax-county-in-virginia-spring-with.jpg?s=612x612&amp;w=0&amp;k=20&amp;c=hOn0VTqULSiWAIg1mlLsZWkIdA9Rynk9J5uKyFcKCI0=" alt="" width="900" /></p> <p>I still like to write posts geared to new comers or late comers to a dating game, because I think that&rsquo;s the base that these blogs were founded on &ndash; why they are popular to begin with &ndash; they are built on the foundation of floundering beta&rsquo;s washed ashore drying and cooking in the hot sun, unable to breath, wanting so desperately to get back in the ocean, the ocean of dating and/or sex. So often these blogs can become defining and redefining alpha qualities, or other times places to flaunt one&rsquo;s personal glories on, and sometimes failures. Often as the blog grows it begins to become for other players and other more experienced pua&rsquo;s or players, who want to share notes and strategies on how to get better at what they are already doing. And of course that is just as valuable to <a href="https://www.loveawake.com">the world of a dating game</a>, and to men, but I don&rsquo;t like to forget the foundation. The noobs &ndash; the beta&rsquo;s that are desperately looking for an answer, a magic bullet, only to find sites like this one, and get slapped in the face with the full force of reality. Who here remembers the first time they realized that there were men who were getting everything they wanted and doing stuff with girls that you thought only rock stars and porn stars got to do? You may have been 16 like me, or you might be in your 50&prime;s. Regardless, it was a rude awakening that didn&rsquo;t feel good, and you wanted a piece of the alpha pie. So I still like to go back to this audience and help them out a little, because let&rsquo;s be honest, they&rsquo;re the ones that need it the most.</p> <p>One of the things I find about men who aren&rsquo;t good with women is their own inability to retain what they have done correctly when they have had a woman, assuming they have &ndash; guys that haven&rsquo;t must have at least had a kiss, a girls interest, even if it was prepubescent attention, it doesn&rsquo;t matter &ndash; the best teacher in the ways of girls is the man himself. If you can attract one girl, you can attract many girls. If you can get one girl horny, you can make many girls horny. The trouble with <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Germany-dating-service.html?gender=male">a lot of men out there</a> is that they deem their limited experiences as special. Ask some of your beta friends why they think they can&rsquo;t get a girl when they had so and so before, the answer probably goes something like this:</p> <p>&ldquo;Oh (girl&rsquo;s name) was different. She didn&rsquo;t care that I was (insert geeky trait) or that I&rsquo;m a little (insert physical problem or trait they think is wrong with them) &ndash; other girls aren&rsquo;t like her.&rdquo;</p> <p>If you happen to fall into this category I will tell you one thing that you will need to let sink into that WoW saturated brain of yours&hellip; that girl wasn&rsquo;t special in over looking faults in you &ndash; ALL girls will over look your faults when she&rsquo;s sufficiently attracted to you. When a girl is attracted to you she thinks all your weird and anti social traits are cute, and quirky and she &lsquo;loves&rsquo; you for them. It&rsquo;s of course bullshit, because if you don&rsquo;t keep up the attraction those traits surface and she begins to see you as the beta loser that you are and promptly dismisses you as a viable mate. Learning this can free your warped little mind, and allow you to see girls as the same, not the special thing you had with so and so. Now I&rsquo;m not trying to belittle your romance guys, relax, it&rsquo;s just that what most guys think made it special wasn&rsquo;t what made it special. She dug you, you tingled her vajayjay enough for her to ignore your bad traits. All girls will do this. It&rsquo;s why some alpha&rsquo;s can get away with <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2019/05/14/10-ways-to-get-her-back-after-cheating/">cheating on their girl</a> even when she knows it&rsquo;s happening &ndash; because her attraction is cross circuiting her brain, much like our penis does to us.</p> <p>This information should be enough to give you a satori kick to the head and open up the spectrum of future conquests. And if it does, you may not know that you have a few options with the new secret knowledge of the force. If you are reading this site or other sites like it, you will find a heavy focus on banging as many girls as you can, and banging hotter girls than you could have before game. But that is just one path you can choose, I will admit, not every man can stomach being a complete asshole that pumps and dumps girls like some of us do and &nbsp;have done. Not everyone is strong enough to do it &ndash; and some guys, it&rsquo;s just not what they want. <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Germany/city-of-Berlin.html?gender=male">Some guys</a> actually just want to get a girl, one to settle down with, get into a meaningful relationship with, and build something with. Some even, hold on I think I&rsquo;m gonna be sick, want to get married. And even warnings and advice against the contrary, if you are a man that is in the life position to want this over sleighing countless new pussy, than that&rsquo;s the path you should choose.</p> <p>If you are just learning a dating game, then you should choose your path early, and decide what your bliss is, and follow it. The one truth to game is this: you must never stop gaming, even or especially if you are getting into a meaningful LTR or marriage. It will save you from inevitable heartbreak and possible financial ruin down the road. If you don&rsquo;t take my advice, don&rsquo;t say you weren&rsquo;t warned.</p> <p>The point is, even though you may be reading countless <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/">blogs on how to pick up women</a>, how to seduce women, <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Germany-dating-service.html?gender=female">how to game women</a>, then you still need to come at it from what you want. Do not go out and try and pick up a bunch of girls if that isn&rsquo;t who you are or what you want. Not everyone had the time or desire to go out constantly get new poon, nor do some guys want to do this mainly because they like a little stability in their lives. But game you must.</p> <p>Once you choose your path, the little gems of wisdom the <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2020/02/03/what-about-mens-rights/">manosphere</a> gives you will fall into place for you, and you can begin to create your own style, based on one, what worked with previous girls, and what you learn on what works on every girl, and you can then go down your path armed with the wisdom of gods that your previous generation of men didn&rsquo;t have, save a few local hero&rsquo;s or rare literature or the odd movie or two. Never has there been a time with the ways of the Lothario available to so many, so use it, and follow your bliss, which ever path that is for you.</p>